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As Kenyan children head into a lengthy 10-week December holiday, Kwale Woman Leader Nimusimu Mwasina is emphasizing the importance of keeping them safe during this busy season. She offers practical guidance to parents and guardians on safeguarding children from potential risks, especially as families prepare for gatherings, shopping, and travel.
1. Respecting Boundaries:
During the holiday season, children may be surrounded by additional family and friends, and this can sometimes lead to unwanted contact. Hon. Mwasina encourages parents to help their children feel empowered to set boundaries, even with familiar adults. “Let your child and others know that they have a choice about what they’re comfortable with. If a child says ‘no’ or ‘stop,’ that boundary must be respected.”
2. Recognizing Warning Signs:
Hon. Mwasina also urges parents to stay vigilant and recognize any warning signs of abuse. “Often, abuse comes from someone familiar to the family, making it easy to overlook suspicious behaviors,” she says. “Trust your instincts; if something feels wrong, act on it. Children depend on you for protection, so be proactive in ensuring their safety.”
3. Checking In:
The Kwale Woman Leader encourages parents to check in with their children after they spend time with others, whether in family gatherings or playdates. She recommends asking questions about their experience to ensure that children know they can talk openly about any discomfort.
4. Online Safety:
With children spending more time on digital devices during the holidays, Mwasina emphasizes the need for digital safety. “Teach children about the importance of not sharing sensitive information online, such as location or school details, and the risks associated with online interactions. Encourage them to report any uncomfortable messages or encounters online immediately.”
5. Promoting Good Digital Citizenship:
Hon. Mwasina also advises parents to instill principles of good digital citizenship in their children, including responsible and respectful internet usage. “Children should understand that their online actions contribute to a lasting digital reputation,” she says. Topics such as privacy settings, kindness, and awareness of online environments are crucial to fostering safe digital habits.
With these tips, Hon. Mwasina highlights the shared responsibility of families and communities to create a safe environment for children during the holidays. By staying vigilant and proactive, parents can help ensure a secure and enjoyable holiday season for their children.
